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Why Women Are Attracted To Feminine Men
Jan 26th
From when we were babies to hitherto social pressures have forced us into the role of being a man.
We were discouraged to act feminine. It’s part of being socialized.
We learnt this from our parents, teachers, the media, and friends.
Perhaps an example would shed light on this.
I want you to do something educational: schlep over to a toy store.
At every toy store they have a section for boys and one for girls. Boys aren’t supposed to go into the girl’s section unless they are buying a present for their little sister.
In the boys section you’ll find G.I. Joes, Transformers, and Thomas the Train.
For the girl’s, you’ll find toys such as Brats.
Moreover, these toys are more than playthings. They are heuristic tools for teaching children how to be a man or a woman.
If a boy is caught brushing a Brat doll’s hair his friends will most likely make fun of him and call him a girl.
If his mother or father catch him doing this, they’ll immediately take the doll away from him and worry that he isn’t being socialized as a male.
As a result, most boys grow up to become men fearful of acting like a woman.
There’s nothing wrong with this except that some of the best seducers have developed their feminine side. These men are called “Dandies.”
They oscillate between the role of a man and a woman.
In fact, their seductive power lies in that they cannot be categorized as masculine or feminine.
When a person cannot be categorized, they entrance others. We are attracted to those who entrance us.
The famous psychiatrist Dr. Freud famously said that people are bisexual. According to him, all of us are attracted to both males and females.
But but being stigmatized prevents most of us from acting on these urges.
Women are attracted to the Dandy because he is a woman inside a man’s body.
Dandies are notoriously insolent: they have very little need to please people – especially women. This is another facet of their allure.
To become a Dandy, train yourself to be attentive to detail, relinquish your need to please others, and develop your feminine side.
I want to leave you with a quote from Pablo Picasso: “I am a woman. Every artist is a woman and should have a taste for other women. Artists who are homosexual cannot be true artists because they like men, and since they themselves are women they are reverting to normality.”
This will work whether you make your money from marketing, advertising, the finance world, selling autos, or something else.
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How To Influence The Subconscious Mind
Jan 26th
Here’s a great excerpt from Napoleon Hill’s Think And Grow Rich on influencing the subconscious mind:
AUTO-SUGGESTION is a term which applies to al1 suggestions and all self-administered stimuli which reach one’s mind through the five senses. Stated in another way, auto-suggestion is self-suggestion. It is the agency of communication between that part of the mind where conscious thought takes place, and that which serves as the seat of action for the subconscious mind.
Through the dominating thoughts which one permits to remain in the conscious mind, (whether these thoughts be negative or positive, is immaterial), the principle of auto-suggestion voluntarily reaches the subconscious mind and influences it with these thoughts.
NO THOUGHT, whether it be negative or positive, CAN ENTER THE SUBCONSCIOUS MIND WITHOUT THE AID OF THE PRINCIPLE OF AUTO-SUGGESTION, with the exception of thoughts picked up from the ether. Stated differently, all sense impressions which are perceived through the five senses, are stopped by the CONSCIOUS thinking mind, and may be either passed on to the subconscious mind, or rejected, at will. The conscious faculty serves, therefore, as an outer-guard to the approach of the subconscious.
Nature has so built man that he has ABSOLUTE CONTROL over the material which reaches his subconscious mind, through his five senses, although this is not meant to be construed as a statement that man always EXERCISES this control. In the great majority of instances, he does NOT exercise it, which explains why so many people go through life in poverty.
Recall what has been said about the subconscious mind resembling a fertile garden spot, in which weeds will grow in abundance, if the seeds of more desirable crops are not sown therein. AUTO-SUGGESTION is the agency of control through which an individual may voluntarily feed his subconscious mind on thoughts of a creative nature, or, by neglect, permit thoughts of a destructive nature to find their way into this rich garden of the mind.
You were instructed, in the last of the six steps described in the chapter on Desire, to read ALOUD twice daily the WRITTEN statement of your DESIRE FOR MONEY, and to SEE AND FEEL yourself ALREADY in possession of the money! By following these instructions, you communicate the object of your DESIRE directly to your SUBCONSCIOUS mind in a spirit of absolute FAITH. Through repetition of this procedure, you voluntarily create thought habits which are favorable to your efforts to transmute desire into its monetary equivalent.
Go back to these six steps described in chapter two, and read them again, very carefully, before you proceed further. Then (when you come to it), read very carefully the four instructions for the organization of your “Master Mind” group, described in the chapter on Organized Planning. By comparing these two sets of instructions with that which has been stated on auto-suggestion, you, of course, will see that the instructions involve the application of the principle of auto-suggestion.
Remember, therefore, when reading aloud the statement of your desire (through which you are endeavoring to develop a “money consciousness”), that the mere reading of the words is of NO CONSEQUENCE- UNLESS you mix emotion, or feeling with your words. If you repeat a million times the famous Emil Cou formula, “Day by day, in every way, I am getting better and better,” without mixing emotion and FAITH with your words, you will experience no desirable results. Your subconscious mind recognizes and acts upon ONLY thoughts which have been well-mixed with emotion or feeling.
This is a fact of such importance as to warrant repetition in practically every chapter, because the lack of understanding of this is the main reason the majority of people who try to apply the principle of auto-suggestion get no desirable results.
This will work whether you make your money from marketing, advertising, the finance world, selling autos, or something else.
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Note: The good folks at the FTC require me to disclose that I am an affiliate of the companies that manufacture and market the health products you will find on this website, and that these companies will compensate me if you buy any of these products.
